Assalammualaikum to all of you.:)
This time I wanted to talk about the way how we should think. Maybe most of you do not want to read about this topic or maybe change to other blog or something that more enjoyable to visit. Nowadays(ceh macam karangan dah), most of people will thing from the bad side, always find the negative thing about something or someone.This is wrong!
In my point of view, if you look at something which is a car for example, you say that the car is smart,beautiful and so on la.But there others said that the car look ugly and weird. In this case, there is no right or wrong, either the beautiful or the weird. This is your opinion, everyone has different taste and like. Maybe you like tea but your father like coffee, you can not say "hey you, this is wrong"! If you go through chat blog, or others and also you tube website you might see those thing, argue about something that you like and don't like.
Looking something from your perspective is also right, there is no wrong about that. For example, our PM is arrogant and selfish, is your perspective you look that object in your own way. How about others? there might others say, PM is smart, have a sympathy value and so on. You are also right everyone is right regarding giving your opinion. That is why when we talk about something or say about something, think it wisely because in your perspective it may be good, but others not, in your perspective it may be not good but others yes. That is why also most of our teacher said, "think out of the box".
In addition, negative thinking also has been spread very fast in Malays cultures, you might say "What the F...." or "Why did you say that to your own people?" because that is the fact. I'm not pointing finger to anybody, but I speak based on my experience.(mesti kau orang cakap "alah baru setahun jagung") Yeah you may be right, but this is my opinion, if you want to follow or do not want to follow is up to you. Like in my post before, you can not hear someone say based on who is she or he, but hear what are he talking about, does it make sense? does it give benefit? Malays will always find the bad side of someone rather than the positive side, you should know and remember there might be a reason every tiny things that happens around us. Maybe the positive side is more than the negative side, then you always make the negative side look much bigger than the positive side. This is wrong, everyone has their goods and bad's, you can't blame he or she just based on the negative side, see someone on the positive side you might think again.
That's all for this post, see yeah.
Assalammualaikum.
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